Fashion is a big part of ourselves, is the way we express, it's what defines us. Ever since we were little we've all played dressed up. Come one guys let's admit it we've all dress as things we've wanted to be. Even now that we're older we still play dress up, isn't that what Halloween is all about? Dressing up as someone else and not being your self for one night. Fashion is what distinguishes as from other people, Someone by just looking at what you wear can determine your personality.
When you first meet someone the first thing you see is how they dress, by just looking at that you can tell a lot about that person. It's kind of like when people say that the first impression is what a person always remember, so you don't want to be remember by the messy person that didn't care about their appearance. Guys seriously, let's be honest most people that don't know you judge you because of you fashion. So how about you take a moment in the morning to actually care about what you look like.
I feel like there are five types of girl styles at school:
*The classic
*The hipster
*The girls that think that they can still wear cloth from Justice
*The over the top girls
*The girls that dress like their going to a night club
All this different type of styles are how a girl express her self. Most of the times girls don't know how to express themselves so they just do it with cloth. You'll always want to be know as the girl that had a good sense of style and like to express herself by what she wore. Just one tip girls, when you choose your outfits please remember to choose ones that are modest and show that you respect your body, because you don't want to be known as the girl that dresses like a prostitute. Girls remember that real men will always be attracted to the girl that know how to respect themselves. This is it for this post lovelies, stay safe and true to yourselves. Xoxo
Since the beginning of the Earth there has always been a thing called popularity. Merriam-Webster defines it as "A state of being liked, enjoyed, accepted, or done by a large number of people." There has been many examples of popularism since the beginning of Earth starting with Jesus, believe it or not he was a popular men, you can go anywhere and ask people if they know who Jesus is and they will probably know who he is. In my opinion the definition of popularity is someone that is liked by everyone and hated by everyone at the same time. Let's be honest, we all have that one girl in our grade that is the prettiest, the most athletic, and the girl that everyone knows about and that people try to be like. This "It" girls are actually the people that get most hate one, specially because everyone is jealous of.
Everyone wants to be the popular girl that everyone looks put to and the girl that every guy likes. I mean I would LOVE for people to look up to me and having everyone liked me, but TBH is not like that. We weren't all meant to "Fit in" to the standards of the "populars" Just like Doctor Sues said "Why fit in when you were born to stand out." Like guys seriously to fit in you don't have to meat everyones standard, you just have to be yourself.
Popular girls don't have it as easy as people think they do. When you're popular it's true that you have tons of friends, but at the same time not all of those "friends" are real. Most of the time people would just act like their friends with someone just so they can join the popular group. I have a friend that one day just came up to me and a group of friends and told us that she didn't care about anything, that the only thing she cared about was being popular. I literally took her to a side and told her that that was the stupidest thing she ever said and that she was wayyy better than, and then she understood that I was just saying that for her own good. After that happened she really did stop trying so hard and just started to be herself. She now is pretty popular and doesn't care that much about popularity, because she realized that if she got where she was, was because she just acted like herself.
Popularity really shouldn't be a big part of you life, because popularity does not give you good grades or give you a better future. This might sound cheesy (well, it probably is) but once you're out of high school what's left? You're popularity or your grades? Will popularity get you to a good college? Do you think that in your college transcripts there is gonna be a line telling the college that you were popular? Yeah, that's what I thought. Just because you're popular it does not guaranty a better future.
From left to right: Sedona, Sunny, Alyssa, Regina, Kelley, Riley, Max, me, Siana, Valerie. Photo creds to Shophie Moffat
So guys you really shouldn't be that worry about popularity because you might have a small group friends and maybe you are the popular girl in your group of friends. At least you know that the friends you have are real friends and not fake ones. Well there was one thing that you get put of this blog, I really hope that is that you don't need to try to be someone else, you just have to be yourself. If people don't like who you truly are then they can just suck it up and deal with it, because you should never change for someone else. Guys this is all I have so I guess I'll see you later alligator ;)
Most of the time we think of school as the most boring place ever, we pretty much think of it as jail. Having to wake up every morning at about 5:30-6:00 am to get ready it's the most stressful part of the day. This is due because we teenagers HATE waking up early which is due to the fact that we are lazy. Not wanting to wake up that early in the morning is also caused by teachers by giving us wayyy too much homework that keeps us up until 2 am. Like brah if you want us to succeed in school don't give us too much homework, our brains can't work if we are tired!
Some DO'S to help you to deal with school are:
1. Do your homework in advance
2. Try to keep a planer so you can write all of the homework that you have to do
3. Be organized, well as best as you can
4. Check your grades as often as possible so you can know what class you have to improve on
5. Do all the extra credit that you can
Here are some DON'TS:
1. Don't be late to class
2. Don't procrastinate
3. Don't txt in class (unless the class is extremely boring and you're falling asleep)
4.Try to not skip class
5. Don't make any drama, serially no one likes people that make drama
So there you have a short list of DO'S and DON'TS for school and a video. Personally I think the biggest one of all advice to deal with school is to use social media in a productive way. By that I mean instead of using your computer for Instagram, Twitter, games etc. Try to use it in the most effective way by looking up stuff for your school homework and not getting side tracked by other websites.
But most important of all don't stress!! Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Photo creds to my aunt So here's a picture of me stressing about HW, don't do that. I'm such a bad example lol.
The most effective way to have a good school year is to not make any drama/rumors and don't be involved in any of them. Seriously guys like what do you want to be known for, the girl that knew how to respect her self of like the girl that every guy had. Yeah, probably the first on, so if you don't want to be the second one then respect yourself. Guys sometimes you just have to listen Gretchen to stay out of trouble.
This simple tips (as stupid as they sound) will help you have the best high school years, because after all when we are done with high school no one will remember you by how popular you were. Just a taught right there. Well guy don't be stupids heads and totally fail high school because bad high school equals no college, no college equals McDonald's job, McDonald's job equal no family, no family equals loner for life. So guys if you don't want to be a loner/ failure for life do good in school. Remember to stay safe and keep updated with my blog. Peace out GIRL SCOUT.
