20 Things Every Girl Thinks But Never Says

Last week I saw this video on Facebook (I know Facebook wow! Who uses that anymore) about what girls think about themselves, but never say it out loud. So this experiment started like this. Production asked this girls to write on a journal how they felt about themselves for a week. Then they got actresses to have a dialogue about what this girls said about themselves. As soon as the original girls that wrote the journals heard the dialogue they realize that it was really mean, and no one should ever say that about themselves. I'll post the video below.

This is the video

So now I'm going to make a list of the 20 things every girl thinks but never says.

1. Ahhh I'm so fat!
2. Why does my nose have to be so big
3. My face is so round
4. What the heck is wrong with you hair today
5. Who told that girl that that outfit was cute. EWW
6. Holy crap! My legs are so big!
7. Why can't I be like her...
8. Omg that girls hair is so greasy, does she not have a shower at home
9. Eww I have so many pimples
10. Why are you so stupid
11. *Rolls eyes* She needs to grow up
12. What a cry baby
13. Does she know that the shirt she's wearing is see-through 
14. She needs to shut up
15. Stop talking to me you annoy me
16. Who does she think she is
17. Her face is so annoying
18. I should probably go on a diet
19. You're irrelevant
20. I'm so done with everything 

All of this things are things that probably every girl has thought of but never said, I mean I have, I'll admit it. We all tend to have negative thoughts, but if we start adding one good thought to our day, we will soon be full of happiness and joy. XOXO, Francesca

One of a Kind

Since we were born we've always been different from other people. We weren't  just different because of our physical appearance, but also for who we were. Just picture this, there is a little girl running around the house in her princess costume, not carrying about what people might think about her. Wait, here's the plot twist, chasing that little girl is a mean pirate that wants to kidnap her and take her to his far away land. You see that little girl? That was you, yes you!

Guys can I just say I love Pineterest they have
some great pics just like this one

As we start to grow we go through different stages of our life but we must never forget who we are. We always blame society for changing who we are or what we do. Come one we all want to fit in so we start to change ourselves so other people will like us. We start to change what we wear, how we talk, and even our personality. But come on lets be ones, we do this to ourselves, it's not like society is pointing a gun to our heads telling us to change who we are. The biggest mistake we make is actually from my point of perspective is we blame society, but honestly who is society? Well society is every single one of us, so we bring this upon ourselves.

The one big thing we must never do, seriously this is in the big book of no-nos is to change who we are. We were made a certain way for a reason, and we must never change that. After all if you change yourself, what do you have left? Nothing, nothing at all, because once you loose yourself it's really hard to get your old self back. We need to start to embrace our flaws and imperfections, because those are what make us different from everyone else. Without them we wouldn't be ourself. So guys I just want you to know that you're one of a kind.

You Are What You Dress Like

Thank you Quozio for this quote

Fashion is a big part of ourselves, is the way we express, it's what defines us. Ever since we were little we've all played dressed up. Come one guys let's admit it we've all dress as things we've wanted to be. Even now that we're older we still play dress up, isn't that what Halloween is all about? Dressing up as someone else and not being your self for one night. Fashion is what distinguishes as from other people, Someone by just looking at what you wear can determine your personality.

When you first meet someone the first thing you see is how they dress, by just looking at that you can tell a lot about that person. It's kind of like when people say that the first impression is what a person always remember, so you don't want to be remember by the messy person that didn't care about their appearance. Guys seriously, let's be honest most people that don't know you judge you because of you fashion. So how about you take a moment in the morning to actually care about what you look like.

I feel like there are five types of girl styles at school:
*The classic
*The hipster
*The girls that think that they can still wear cloth from Justice
*The over the top girls

*The girls that dress like their going to a night club

Creds to Vuible

All this different type of styles are how a girl express her self. Most of the times girls don't know how to express themselves so they just do it with cloth. You'll always want to be know as the girl that had a good sense of style and like to express herself by what she wore. Just one tip girls, when you choose your outfits please remember to choose ones that are modest and show that you respect your body, because you don't want to be known as the girl that dresses like a prostitute. Girls remember that real men will always be attracted to the girl that know how to respect themselves. This is it for this post lovelies, stay safe and true to yourselves. Xoxo

Is Popularity That Big of a Deal?

Since the beginning of the Earth there has always been a thing called popularity. Merriam-Webster defines it as "A state of being liked, enjoyed, accepted, or done by a large number of people." There has been many examples of popularism since the beginning of Earth starting with Jesus, believe it or not he was a popular men, you can go anywhere and ask people if they know who Jesus is and they will probably know who he is. In my opinion the definition of popularity is someone that is liked by everyone and hated by everyone at the same time. Let's be honest, we all have that one girl in our grade that is the prettiest, the most athletic, and the girl that everyone knows about and that people try to be like. This "It" girls are actually the people that get most hate one, specially because everyone is jealous of.


Everyone wants to be the popular girl that everyone looks put to and the girl that every guy likes. I mean I would LOVE for people to look up to me and having everyone liked me, but TBH is not like that. We weren't all meant to "Fit in" to the standards of the "populars" Just like Doctor Sues said "Why fit in when you were born to stand out." Like guys seriously to fit in you don't have to meat everyones standard, you just have to be yourself.

Creds to Inspiration

Popular girls don't have it as easy as people think they do. When you're popular it's true that you have tons of friends, but at the same time not all of those "friends" are real. Most of the time people would just act like their friends with someone just so they can join the popular group. I have a friend that one day just came up to me and a group of friends and told us that she didn't care about anything, that the only thing she cared about was being popular. I literally took her to a side and told her that that was the stupidest thing she ever said and that she was wayyy better than, and then she understood that I was just saying that for her own good. After that happened she really did stop trying so hard and just started to be herself. She now is pretty popular and doesn't care that much about popularity, because she realized that if she got where she was, was because she just acted like herself.

Popularity really shouldn't be a big part of you life, because popularity does not give you good grades or give you a better future. This might sound cheesy (well, it probably is) but once you're out of high school what's left? You're popularity or your grades? Will popularity get you to a good college? Do you think that in your college transcripts there is gonna be a line telling the college that you were popular? Yeah, that's what I thought. Just because you're popular it does not guaranty a better future. 

From left to right: Sedona, Sunny, Alyssa, Regina, Kelley, Riley, Max, me, Siana, Valerie.
Photo creds to Shophie Moffat

So guys you really shouldn't be that worry about popularity because you might have a small group friends and maybe you are the popular girl in your group of friends. At least you know that the friends you have are real friends and not fake ones. Well there was one thing that you get put of this blog, I really hope that is that you don't need to try to be someone else, you just have to be yourself. If people don't like who you truly are then they can just suck it up and deal with it, because you should never change for someone else. Guys this is all I have so I guess I'll see you later alligator ;)