Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Sunday, May 10, 2015

Why School Actually Isn't So Bad

You probably just read the title and were like "OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER!!" or "Wow she must be one of those losers that actually likes school, psh pathetic." Well I've got to tell you a secret. I secretly do like school....seriously, I do. I mean it's not my favorite place to be in but it's not that bad as people make it seem. I guess there are bad parts to it; like homework, mean teachers, etc. But tbh how would you learn the topic if you don't do homework? Who would you learn from if there weren't teachers? You see high school is not such a bad place. I consider it a really fun place, where you can literally be as awkward as you want an you know that it is okay, because there are other people in the school that are as awkward as you are!

Here's a picture of me and other kids in my school when we won the science fair
Photo creds Mr.T

At school you can literally be anyone you want. You can be the awkward kid, the nerd, the dancer, the swimmer, the skater, the weird kid, the shy kid, the pretty much what ever you want to be kid. Yea, I guess there are down side to that, like bullying or being left out. But in my case, I've always been in really good school, where there has been no bullying. I remember being bullied once, but literally that was the one and only time. And if you are ever being bullied just tell someone, the bullies should not be the reason why you hate school, because there is so much more in school then just bullies. Now that we've covered the whole friend thing and school as a place where you can hang out with your friends let cover the educational part of it. School is not only a place of entertainment but also a place of educational fun, where you can choose what you want to learn. Literally it's not like the teachers make you learn the subject. You get to choose if you want to learn or not, it's up to you. School is not a place where you're supposed to feel like you are going to hell every day, it should be a place where you can grow as a person and as an individual. Here's an article about school, it's really interesting, you guys should read it, click here. I hope I influence your opinion about school. XOXO, Francesca




Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Sibling Love

Giacomo and I
PC Mom
Siblings are the most important thing in the world. Nah that is way too cheesy, parents are actually the most important thing in the world tbh. But my brothers are the second more important thing in the world. Specially my older brother Giacomo, he's my role model. They say that brothers and sisters aren't always that close since they are different gender. In my case it's totally different, I mean not just only because I have no sisters, just brothers, but it is because I have been blessed with such a wonderful brother. He's the best friend that I have always wished for.  He's kind loyal, understanding, annoying, good listener, joker, and many more qualities that are unique to him.

 In the last couple of years I feel like our relationship has strengthen and developed into more or a friendship. I've been able to tell him everything. Literally everything. I've started to talk to him about my friendship problems, boy drama, family drama and other kinds of stuff. He has helped me so much with everything. I owe him a big one. I will always remember those talks that we've had in the morning where you will always just listen to my drama and give me the best advice. Please don't think that we're like the perfect siblings, because when we fight, we fight. I mean sometimes even fist fight but he obviously always lets me win. And when we get to verbal fight, those are rough, believe me. But like the gentle man that he is, he always says sorry first, no matter what. I'm so grateful to have such an awesome and admirable brother, I will always be proud of him. I have no idea what I'm going to do when he leaves on a mission. I will miss him so much. If you ever see him around or get the chance to meet him you should totally go up to him and say him, because he's the most friendly person ever.  XOXO, Francesca


Friday, March 27, 2015

Track Swag

Hi everyone, I hope you've had an awesome week. Well I've got good news that I forgot to share with you. I joined the Track and Field team. I know it's so surprising, because if you know me you would know that I seriously hate running, like I wouldn't do it on my free time. Whatevs, I still joined track. I have to say it's pretty hard having to run so many laps and doing all this exercise. I guess I'll be in shape for basketball. The main reason why I'm doing track is because of basketball, my goal for ext year is to make to varsity, so I thought this would really help me. Since I've started track I've got the chance to met so many awesome people and coaches, so I'm going to talk about it a little bit more in detail.
Here's a picture of our gang that we've made. PC:Dill Pickle   
Since I've started track I got to get closer to Dillon and Dani and Maggie. They are such fun people to be around. They actually make track so much better and less painful. The funnest park of track is going to meets and racing and just hanging out with your peeps while waiting for races. While waiting for races seriously the only thing we do is just hang out and talk about our "Wanna be Bæs" It's a long story that might actually lead me to another post. Well I just wanted to share the news and how exited I am about it. Thank for reading, please leave suggestions on the comment section on what I could improve on. XOXO Francesca

Sunday, February 1, 2015

Friends Are Cool

Hello everyone, I've decided that I seriously have the coolest and greatest friends ever. I mean you know how they say friends are like a four leaf clover, hard to find but lucky to have. Well, that's actually not true, I mean the hard to find part, because I've actually found so many great friends, so Id not think they're that hard to find. You just have to look in the right places. So this post is all about my friends,. You could call it a friends appreciation post.

So lets start with one of the closest friend I have. Her name is Salina Ochoa, she's probably one of the nicest and sweetest person that you'll ever meet. Not to mention that she is hilarious! Seriously, if you ever feel sad you can just go to her and she'll just make you laugh. You could say that she's one of those people that you could count on for anything. We met in 6th grade at basketball, and we first weren't that good of friends, because I literally did talk to anyone, because I was sooooo shy. But then in 7th grade we had math together, and that's when we started talking and becoming good friends, and later on in the day we found out that we had english together too, so that was the best thing ever. After that we both decided to play softball together too. So you could say we're sports friends. She's kind off like the sister I never had, I could probably go on and on talking to her and we would never run out of stuff to talk about.

Here are pictures of her and I. Photo Creds to me.
Another good friend that I have is Kelley Hennessy. She is such a good friend. She's one of people that will make sure you don't get left out no matter what. Her personality is the best thing ever. You will never get bored being around her. I have so many good memories with her and hope to make so many more. Everyone should get to know her because she's just such a good person.

The picture in the left is from like 3 years ago, please ignore our faces

Another close friends that I have is Siana and Darbi. I decided to do both of them together because they are much a like! Seriously it's crazy. So Siana is one of the weirdest funniest person you'll ever meet. Darbi is pretty funny when she wants to and a really good friend.
So the one laying is Siana and the little hand  is Darbi. I seriously don't know what we were doing.

One of my friends that made this post is Regina. She's supper nice and funny. She'll just come with the most random things ever, that you just stay there and just look at her like what? and then just start laughing. She's one of the kindness person ever.

Picture of Regina and I. PC: Regina's mom

I think this is my top 5 friends. I'm really sorry if I didn't mention everyone. Still love ya people. That's it for this post, see ya guys. Thanks for reading.

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Is Popularity That Big of a Deal?

Since the beginning of the Earth there has always been a thing called popularity. Merriam-Webster defines it as "A state of being liked, enjoyed, accepted, or done by a large number of people." There has been many examples of popularism since the beginning of Earth starting with Jesus, believe it or not he was a popular men, you can go anywhere and ask people if they know who Jesus is and they will probably know who he is. In my opinion the definition of popularity is someone that is liked by everyone and hated by everyone at the same time. Let's be honest, we all have that one girl in our grade that is the prettiest, the most athletic, and the girl that everyone knows about and that people try to be like. This "It" girls are actually the people that get most hate one, specially because everyone is jealous of.


Everyone wants to be the popular girl that everyone looks put to and the girl that every guy likes. I mean I would LOVE for people to look up to me and having everyone liked me, but TBH is not like that. We weren't all meant to "Fit in" to the standards of the "populars" Just like Doctor Sues said "Why fit in when you were born to stand out." Like guys seriously to fit in you don't have to meat everyones standard, you just have to be yourself.
Creds to Inspiration


Popular girls don't have it as easy as people think they do. When you're popular it's true that you have tons of friends, but at the same time not all of those "friends" are real. Most of the time people would just act like their friends with someone just so they can join the popular group. I have a friend that one day just came up to me and a group of friends and told us that she didn't care about anything, that the only thing she cared about was being popular. I literally took her to a side and told her that that was the stupidest thing she ever said and that she was wayyy better than, and then she understood that I was just saying that for her own good. After that happened she really did stop trying so hard and just started to be herself. She now is pretty popular and doesn't care that much about popularity, because she realized that if she got where she was, was because she just acted like herself.

Popularity really shouldn't be a big part of you life, because popularity does not give you good grades or give you a better future. This might sound cheesy (well, it probably is) but once you're out of high school what's left? You're popularity or your grades? Will popularity get you to a good college? Do you think that in your college transcripts there is gonna be a line telling the college that you were popular? Yeah, that's what I thought. Just because you're popular it does not guaranty a better future. 

From left to right: Sedona, Sunny, Alyssa, Regina, Kelley, Riley, Max, me, Siana, Valerie.
Photo creds to Shophie Moffat

So guys you really shouldn't be that worry about popularity because you might have a small group friends and maybe you are the popular girl in your group of friends. At least you know that the friends you have are real friends and not fake ones. Well there was one thing that you get put of this blog, I really hope that is that you don't need to try to be someone else, you just have to be yourself. If people don't like who you truly are then they can just suck it up and deal with it, because you should never change for someone else. Guys this is all I have so I guess I'll see you later alligator ;)